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Muriel (Mickey) Brady-Licker posted a condolence
Monday, August 29, 2011
IT WAS BY SHEER ACCIDENT THAT MY HUSBAND BOB LICKER AND I,WHILE ON THE NET, LEARNED OF BILLY'S PASSING. WHAT A SHOCK SINCE MY BROTHER LEO BRADY HAD JUST PASSED ON JUNE 20.
IT IS AN UNDERSTATEMENT TO SAY THAT THE BRADY AND DE STEFANO FAMILIES OF WEST PATERSON WERE CLOSE BUT GROWING UP AT A WONDERFUL TIME IN WEST PATERSON MADE FOR CLOSE FRIENDS.
BILLY AND I ATTENDED WEST PATERSON SCHOOLS 1 AND 4 TOGETHER. WE GRADUATED 8TH GRADE TOGETHER AND WENT ON TO PV. WE GRADUATED PV TOGETHER IN 1953. BILLY WAS A BIG PART OF MY LIFE GROWING UP. HE WAS JUST LIKE ANOTHER BROTHER TO ME. HE WOULD COME DOWN THE HILL FROM HIS HOUSE TO MINE ON MANY AN EVENING AND WE WOULD ANSWER OUR ASSIGED HISTORY QUESTIONS SPREAD OUT WITH OUR BOOKS ON MY LIVING ROOM FLOOR. DON'T THINK HE COULD EVERY REALLY UNDERSTAND MY LOVE OF HISTORY! I'LL NEVER FORGET ANSWERING THE DOOR ONE EVENING AND SEEING BILLY STANDING THERE IN HIS U.S. ARMY UNIFORM. I DIDN'T KNOW HE HAD JOINED! LIKE SO MANY OF THE WEST PATERSON "BOYS" HE HAD COME TO SEE MR. AND MRS. BRADY. WE SPOKE FOR ONLY A SHORT TIME BUT I KNEW IN THOSE FEW MOMENTS THAT BILLY KNEW WHERE HE WAS GOING IN LIFE AND THAT HE WOULD BE AS SPECIAL AS I ALWAYS FELT HE WAS.
THE LAST TIME I SAW BILLY WAS AT OUR 35 YEAR HIGH SCHOOL REUNION. HE MAY HAVE KNOWN THAT I HAD MOVED TO CALIFORNIA BUT I KNOW HE WAS SURPRISED TO FIND THAT I HAD MET AND MARRIED BOB LICKER, PV CLASS OF '49, WHO AT ONE TIME, WAS A RIVERDALE PART TIME POLICEMAN. WE HAD A GREAT TIME TALKING AND REMINISCING.
BILLY GAVE ME ONE OF HIS BUSINESS CARDS AND I TOOK IT BACK TO CALIFORNIA AND PLACED IT IN OUR YEARBOOK WHERE IT REMAINS TO THIS DAY.
I HAVE NO DOUBTS THAT BILLY AND MY BROTHER LEO ARE TOGETHER SHARING STORIES OF THE GOOD OLD DAYS IN WEST PATERSON--SLEIGH RIDING DOWN THE HILL, PLAYING CARDS AT THE BOTTOM OF THE HILL AND GETTING IN "BEFORE THE LIGHTS GO ON"!
JOHN AND RONNIE YOU HAVE MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. PLEASE PASS MY CONDOLENCES TO BILLY'S FAMILY
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Joe De Cagna posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
My condolences to the family. I will miss Billy's great heart, warmth & fun.
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Carol Altshuler posted a condolence
Sunday, August 7, 2011
Garden Ave will never be the same.. We were not only fortunate to have You and your family as a neighbor but also as a FRIEND.. You left our family with many memories... Love you always The Altshuler Family..
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Nancy keane posted a condolence
Saturday, July 9, 2011
Momma,and the DeStefano family, I am so sorry for your loss. Billy was a wonderful man. Very few people you meet are as compassionate and kind as Billy. He was a true blessing to know. He was there for me and Chucky, and now I know Chuucky will be there for him as they meet again in Heaven. I pray for you to find comfort. He was a gentleman and a very kind man. God only takes the best.
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Mr & Mrs. Gary Bartholf posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Our deepest sympathy to all the family of Bill, he will live in the hearts of people who came in contact with him he always made you feel comfortable in his company....may he rest in peace.Gary & Madeline Bartholf w.p. n.j.
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Rick Gaita posted a condolence
Saturday, July 2, 2011
Billy was a good Friend may he rest in peace
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Joe Gomez posted a condolence
Friday, July 1, 2011
You were always there when someone needed help. I know by the time I get to heaven you'll know where all the good spots are. It was my honor to call you Friend.
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BROTHER JOHN & CESIRA DESTEFANO posted a condolence
Friday, July 1, 2011
BRO BILL.... JUST TO LET YOU KNOW THAT WE,CESY AND I, WERE ALWAYS THERE WITH YOU . WE WILL ALWAYS BE TOGETHER FOR WE HAVE SO MANY WONDERFUL MEMORIES OF OUR LIVES . YOU ARE ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS. SEE YOU...LOVE YOU... CIAO!
Good bye brother Bill, thank you for always being there for us, since the time I came from "THE OTHER SIDE OF THE OCEAN". Now, overlooking the beautiful italian sea, I will always see you and remember the many happy times we spent together. YOU WILL BE FOREVER IN MY HEART, IN MY PRAYERS AND IN MY KITCHEN !!!... LOVE YOU !!!!!! CIAO
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Susan Burghardt-Burkard posted a condolence
Friday, July 1, 2011
I was very sad to here of your lost. Billy was a good friend while I was growing up in Riverdale,working Civil Defense. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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The Peluse-Steed Family posted a condolence
Thursday, June 30, 2011
Billy was a great guy. He will be missed by all. I know Billy and John are kicking ass in heaven.
Rest in Peace,
Terry Peluse and Sharon Steed
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KAREN & CARLO COPPA posted a condolence
Thursday, June 30, 2011
To The DeStefano Family, You have our deepest sympathy. We knew Bill very well. He was a very generous and caring man. He was always there for The Louis J. Coppa Foundation and I will be internally gratefull. He will be missed.
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Patti DeStefano Opromollo posted a condolence
Thursday, June 30, 2011
Uncle Bill loved life, loved people, took real pleasure in the simple things in life and gave us that gift in return by just being in his company. He was always there to help and he would never turn his back on you and although he never carried a cell phone, if we needed him we knew what spots to search him out in!!!!
He was a great man and left behind many wonderful memories for each one of us.
Today I am very sad, as i am sure many people are, but also very grateful that he was always such a big part of my life and my family.....I will miss him greatly but will carry him in my heart always.
And tonight I will celebrate him as he would want....an aperitivo overlooking the sea at sunset and I know he will be right there with me saying "PATTIDUKE" with a big smile on his face.
I LOVE YOU UNCLE BILL!!!!!!!!!!!
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Mr. & Mrs. Joseph W. Carioti III posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
May you look over all of us with all that have gone before you. Billy may you rest and be comforted by family and friends that have passed before you, rest knowing of all you have done with your life in the short time you were here.We are all proud to have had you in our lives and we mourn not being able to see you.Until we meet again my friend.RIP
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Angela posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Uncle Bill after all the years of seeing you at work who would ever think that you would become part of my family. YOU WILL BE MISSED !!!
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Rita; Grimes posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Bill you will surely be missed. It's going to seem strange not seeing you at The Town Deli.
Rest In Peace! Rita
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Sam Yodice Jr posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
I've always known Billy as a guy impossible not to like; easy to talk to, to joke with, and most of all, a man proudest of his family and friends. My father (Sam Yodice Sr) and Billy knew each other a long time! Growing up together "back in the day" in Paterson. On more than a few occasions, Billy would tell me of the sometimes mischievous events of their youth. He always looked back fondly remembering those conversations with Billy, many, many, many will miss him. To the DeStefano Family with my thoughts and prayers, I offer my sincerest condolences.
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Pat & David Leporini posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
We are so sorry to hear of Billy's passing. He always greeted us with that great smile of his! Treasure the great memories. Watch over us all Billy...
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Jerry and Barbara Speziale posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
We will always remember our good friend, Billy. He always had a big smile and something nice to say whenever you were with him. He will be missed by all of us who loved him and called him "Friend". Our deeped sympathy goes to his wife and family at this terribly sad time.
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Marianne Abbood posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
TO A VERY GIVING PERSON, MAY
YOU REST IN PEACE ALWAYS
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Penny Pikaart posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Bill was one of the "good guys" who called the shots as he saw them. We had many a laugh in PV. He had an impish smile and a sparkle in his eyes that let you know he knew what was going on. We had great fun in Mr. K's art classes, and I hope "Little Tex" gets to ride those heavenly horses to his heart's delight. May your family's grieving be gentle, Bill.
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Frank C. Yodice Jr. posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
No words are enough or needed, YOU KNOW how special you were to our entire family. You will be dearly missed.
Rocky and the Cuda
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Pattie Monsaert-Westall posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
The Lobosco's moved to Riverdale in 1980 & Capt. D came to greet us. My Uncle, Capt. Bill Ohlmeyer, West Milford PD was on a call with him one night. Capt. D was schmoozing someone at the time and my Uncle said: boy, Capt. you are "Smooth". Hence, Capt. Smooth stuck with him forever. He was so much fun, always caring about each and every friend he had and was my favorite - always so dependable. Our sympathies to the DeStefano Family. I will truly miss him. Pattie, Sean & Stacy Lobosco - Cottage Place, Riverdale NJ
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James Atieh posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Please accept my deepest sympathy to the family.In the years i have known Billy i only have good memories never anything other than happy to see you came out of his greeting . He will be greatly missed !
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Joseph A. Napoleone posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
The DeStefano Family, My deepest sympathy for your loss. Capt. DeStefano served with dignity and honor. May GOD bless and keep you now and always.
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Chief Gerald Napoleone(Ret) posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Catherine&Family,
My deepest sympathy for your loss, the Captain served his Family, Country and the People of Riverdale and West Paterson with Honor.
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Peter & Christina Affinito posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Pete and I are truly going to miss your smiling face, your warm embrace, and always your kind words, sadly missed and never ever forgotten.
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Lori Bedford Klein posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
I will always remember Capt. DeStefano and how helpfull he was when I first started working at Kinnelon P.D. Although he teased me about working in Kinnelon instead of for him in Riverdale he was always there for me if I ever needed his help or information. He was a great man and will surely be missed.
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Kim & Nicholas Malanga posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Billy's zest for life, his passion for all of it, his humor and his love for his family and friends will leave a deep hole for all. Heaven has been blessed- and he has joined his longtime friends-Cathy, Billy & Danny- he will never stop loving and taking care of you- he will just do it differently now. xo to all of you- and most certainly to Billy- Thanks for the memories- and for being a part of our lives....
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Karen Pomante posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Our Deepest Sympathys to the family..A wonderful man...R.I.P. Bill.
Karen, Amanda & Steve Pomante
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Jim Durkin posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
My deepest sympathy to the Family of Capt. Bill DeStephano, Bill will always be remembered for his support of the New Jersey Honor Legion and to the Law Enforcement Community. He will be deeply missed to all that he touched during his life. May he rest in Peace.
Jim Durkin President New Jersey Police Honor Legionoajz
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Robin Malone Sangastiano posted a condolence
Monday, June 27, 2011
The DeStefano Family I am so sorry for you loss. I remember BIlly when I was growing up & he always stopping by at our house to see my dad Bob Malone he always gave me a hug & a kiss hello & growing up with Billy jr. R.I.P Billy xo
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John G. Serafin posted a condolence
Monday, June 27, 2011
To the De Stefano family,
Billy was a long time friend of mine and the NJ Honor Legion. We will miss seeing Billy at the meetings and other functions. May he rest in peace.
Deepest Sympathy,
John G. Serafin
Retired Lt, Paterson PD
President NJ Honor Legion, 1992/1993
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Frank and Connie Cappello posted a condolence
Monday, June 27, 2011
Words cannot describe the feeling of emptiness felt when we heard this news. Always a smile, a gentleman, a great neighbor, your love and dedication for West Paterson, all cannot go unnoticed. You will be sadly missed.
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The Wetzel Family posted a condolence
Monday, June 27, 2011
Raising three daughters is Riverdale, we always knew Billy was there to keep an eye out for them (as if they were his own) Never without a smile, a compliment and a hug, we were always happier after seeing him around town. Even after retiring from the Riverdale PD he made sure to stop by at the street fair or the luncheonette and we were always thrilled to see him. We will remember him always and smile every time we speak of him, thank you for sharing this wonderful man with so many people, we were lucky to have him in our lives.
RIP Capt.
Elaine, Donnie, Christine, Dana and Jennifer Wetzel
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Al Russo posted a condolence
Monday, June 27, 2011
WHAT CAN I SAY ABOUT BILLY THAT HAS NOT BEEN SAID.HE WAS A GREAT FRIEND AND THE ONE PERSON WHO HAD ASKED ME TO SING MY WAY OVER AND OVER AGAIN. I GUESS YOU CAN SAY HE TRULY LIVED THE LYRICS, BECAUSE BILLY DID IT HIS WAY. HE WILL TRULY BE MISSED BY ALL.
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John & Dawn Peine posted a condolence
Monday, June 27, 2011
Captain Bill was one of a kind that is for sure! From growing up as a kid in Riverdale to working with him at the police department I will carry memories of him for the rest of my life. What a fun guy! Always full of life and looking for a good time for all. We will miss him but I know he has moved on to a better place and is in some good company. I know he will live on thru stories told by all the officers he has worked with because there are some great ones! Cathy ,Billy,Danny and the rest of the family, we are sorry for you loss and you will be in our thoughts and prayers.
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Carl P.Padula posted a condolence
Monday, June 27, 2011
DeStefano Family
Carl P.Padula
President Retired Local#5, Passaic County
June 27, 2011
Our Deepest Sympathies
As night's darkness is followed by dawn, sorrow is followed by comfort. Please know that your Retired Police & Fire Local #5 Passaic County family extends its deepest, most heartfelt sympathies on the death of your beloved Husband.
There is not one among us who has not suffered the trauma of a death sometime in our lives. Most have found comfort in paying the ultimate homage to a person who was dear to them. This is to take the characteristics we cherished the most in the departed loved one and pass them on for the benefit of others. If there is anything we can do to lessen your pain, remember we are here to help.
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Kim Hamilton posted a condolence
Monday, June 27, 2011
Billy you were one of the good guys, rest in peace. you will be missed, but always thought of with a smile.
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tim posted a condolence
Monday, June 27, 2011
he was a very great man, he would give the shirt off his back for ya. he went far out of his way to help any of his sons friends. he will be deeply missed. sorry for your loss DeStefano family.
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Patti Diaz posted a condolence
Monday, June 27, 2011
I AM SO EXTREMELY SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF MY DEAR FRIEND BILLY. MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO HIS FAMILY AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME. HE HAS ALWAYS BEEN A FUN LOVING, GENEROUS, WONDERFUL MAN. HE HAS BEEN AN ABSOLUTE BLESSING TO ME AND MY FAMILY. GOD BLESS HIM AND HIS FAMILY. HE WILL BE SORELY MISSED!
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Jack and Susie Carbone posted a condolence
Monday, June 27, 2011
A family man, a loving husband, a community leader, dedicated police officer, investigator, and a dear friend.
As a client he only wanted the right result; as a a friend he helped us get Tom Kean elected Governor; and, his service to the Borough of WEST PATERSON, was long, legendary, and loyal. There was a reason his nickname was "Smooth" without anger or threat, he got things done and all sides respected how he did it. They truly don't make'm like Billy any more--with deep sympathies and sorrow, Jack and Susie Carbone
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